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Sunday, February 15, 2015

Happy Valentines Day - Update on Foster Care

Yesterday we spent our Valentines Day away from home all day. We were with each other but we were completing PRIDE classes #3 and #4.  These classes focused on abuse, attachment and loss.  Not very "loving" things to talk about on such a love filled holiday.  I'm glad that we were able to spend it together anyway.  And we are that much closer to completing what is needed for fostercare. 

We completed class #1 and #2 last week and #3 and #4 yesterday.  So we have done 12 hours. We have 15 hours left and 2.5 more Saturdays.  So we are almost there!  And most of our paperwork has been filled out.  We have a couple more home studies to complete in the next couple of weeks as well.  Then everything we will be sent off to be approved by the state. 

We are also officially "Safe Family" approved.  So we could potentially receive a call for that. 

Friday, December 13, 2013

Its only been 6 months!

I think I blinked and it's already been 6 months since my last blog post!  I use to faithfully blog at least once a month but our life has been so crazy this was the first thing to go.  I don't even know if people read blogs anymore??!!  Let me know if you still read it!

The last time I posted it was end of May when we made the decision to continue to homeschool.  Then summer hit and we had the time of our lives!!!  It was the best summer ever.  I will kind of recap what we've been doing from May until now and then do additional posts with pictures of everything. 

This summer we took a nice fun break from all the hustle and bustle of the school year.  We did continue to do reading and writing almost every day with Reece.  She started her 1st grade writing curriculum in the summer  - cursive!  We of course got the pool pass and made it there a few times a week.  In June I watched up to 7 children a day as a back up sitter for several families.  That was nuts!  We got a new toy for the yard - a big Banzai water slide which was given to the kids as a gift from our neighbors who love them like their own grandkids.  Both kids did gymnastics over the summer.  It was really one of the only things they both agreed on and that they could both do at the same time.  They also did swimming lessons for a month. At the end of June through July 4th, I took my best friend Kristy and her two kids (who are also 5 and 6 and girl and boy) to Branson to my in-laws condo.  We had such a great time!  The kids and I went back to Branson alone in August before school started for one last bang of the summer!  Brock pretty much finished the 53 Ford and we went to several car shows. 

This fall Brody started pre k at Sharing Tree preschool where Reece attended.  Reece started full 1st grade at home and also doing Classical Conversations on Thursdays.  It has been so hard keeping up on all our activities and responsibilities!  But everyone is learning so much.  Both kids are still in Awana.  Brody is in his 3rd and final year at cubbies and Reece is in her 2nd year of sparks.  Reece also started taking ballet this fall (as opposed to tap like she did last year).  She loves it! She of course tried out for the nutcracker again this year and got two great roles as Bon Bon and Soldier.  She loved every minute of it and can't wait to try out again next year! 

Another thing that has been going on at our house is a lot of loosing teeth!  Brody lost his first and Reece is on her way to loosing her 6th.  If she loses it before Christmas, she will be asking for her 2 front teeth! 

In September I decided to do something more with photography.  I had been taking pictures for people for a couple of years when they asked.  I absolutely love doing this but didn't really want to do it for a "living".  I wanted to offer something different than the other 50 photographers in town.  So I turned it more into a ministry where the profits are going to families in need.  Families who are adopting, families who have a child with an illness, etc.  I fell in love with taking photos when I was in the delivery room with birth clients and just absolutely love taking photos of families.  I have a couple of sites you can view if you want to check out what I am doing. My facebook page is under Purposeful Photography.  You can also find me under this link

We took the kids to Shedds aquarium for the day a month ago.  2 weeks later I traveled to Chicago alone on the train to visit my childhood best friend for the weekend.  Brock met us Sunday and we all went to the Bears game.  While at home, there was a tornado that went through and destroyed Washington.  We were evacuated at the game and our kids were evacuated at church.  It was pretty scary but fortunately ended well for us and the Bears won in overtime! 

Now that Nutcracker is over, we are looking forward to Christmas and what the new year has to bring!

Bauer photos 2013

Every year we try to get family photos.  Instead of paying someone, I trade off with a friend.  She takes mine with my camera and I do all the editing.  Then I take hers on her camera and she does all the editing.  Works out nicely!!!  Got some great ones this year!

Here's us with the old finished 53 Ford.





There's the beauty with all the missing teeth.  I think all the other teeth loss photos are on my phone :(


Branson July and August 2013

 
 
Branson in July
 
Kids enjoyed craft time with Kristy every evening!  They made shirts, plates, & picture frames.  I did all the cooking :)
We went to moonshine beach for the first time








 Of course, go karting when daddy came up for the weekend.

Swimming every day in the pool.


 Harley made his first appearance in Branson as well.
 All 4 of them - BFFS!!
 Another pair of BFFs :)

Saw Despicable Me 2 at the big IMAX theatre


 Went to the Todd Oliver show


 
Branson August 2013
 
In August I drove to Branson with just the kids and the dog for the first time ever.  I was a little afraid to travel this far with them but since they have done the trip so many times they knew how long it would take.  They were excellent in the car.  Only stopped once to go to the bathroom and get food. 
 
The kids always wanted to stop at this Great American Steak and Chicken house for food.  We went here one morning for brunch.  It was not all that their marketing indicated.
 


Made some time to take some good photos of the kids for the beginning of the school year.








We went to the Promised Land Zoo.  It just opened in the spring.






 We also went "goofy" golfing for the first time.

We went to the Dogwood canyons and went on a 7 mile bike ride to Arkansas.  It was one of the coolest things I have ever done.





 

Saturday, May 25, 2013

Why we choose Homeschooling...The Debate

A conversation I had yesterday with someone who is close to me has prompted this post.  I knew homeschooling would be an area of conflict with some people who are close to me.  I had put off telling our news of continuing to homeschool next year until it came up yesterday.  I feel the Lord had prepared me with what to say although it hurts that our relationship may change because of our decision to homeschool. 

I was asked yesterday if I was sending Reece to school next year.  I said no.  This prompted an hour long debate which I felt totally secure in discussing.  The discussion has started a fire in me...passion to discuss this topic more with others.  I won't lay out the conversation by a "he said, she said" but rather use what we talked about in this post to share my viewpoint on homeschooling and what opposers are saying. The things in this post were discussed with a person I am close with.

First, the only reason we started homeschooling last year was the prompting we felt from the Holy Spirit.  If you don't believe there is a Holy Spirit, this may be difficult to understand.  Homeschooling was not on my radar at all.  You'll remember my post about it last year found Here.  But I felt that the Lord was saying to do this and I wanted to obey, even though I did NOT want to homeschool.  My husband was really on the fence and didn't see us doing it either but also said we should obey if I felt that strongly about it.  We have both come full circle since then and know this is what she should be doing at this time.  Is it a forever thing for our family?  That I can not say because I don't know the answer to that.

During the year, my thoughts on homeschooling have dramatically changed.  Was it this blissful picture of flowers blowing in the breeze in a meadow?  No, absolutely not.  We had days like that, but we had a lot of days of establishing authority and control, tears, and learning things that were difficult.  In the end, we have made great progress.  We have grown close together as a family and watching her learn things that a school might say is impossible, is priceless. 

I have discovered another big reason to why we choose homeschooling.  Unfortunately, in today's world, a lot of parents have chosen not to parent their child.  How can I feel comfortable about sending my child to be around tons of other kids who haven't been trained/disciplined the way I have trained mine?  Not that my parenting record is perfect...it is far from that.  My children are expected to obey and there is a consequence when they have not.  Most kids are bribed to obey and have no real consequence when they don't do as they are told, so the sin or the misbehavior, seems like a better deal to them than the consequence.  Why not mess up if all I am going to get is a time out?  Now my child who is only 5 or 6 is suppose to be able to stand on their own two feet against many other kids who are disrupting class, getting in trouble, etc and make a good choice on her own?  She is just now at the age when we can talk in depth about those issues and I'm suppose to send her away to spend more time with a bunch of others who may not share the same values, morals, discipline that we want her to know about and expect from her.  I feel she is too young to handle those situations on her own.  Yes, we would have evenings to discuss things, but there isn't a lot of time to do that when they have homework, extra curriculars, bath, dinner...not to mention how tired they are.  And what if you have a child who just doesn't tell what happened in their day?  No where in the bible does it say "A child at the age of 5 must leave their parents home and cleave to the state".  So a 2nd reason for me to homeschool, would the be the lack of control in others peoples parenting choices.  It's not the schools...it's not the teachers...there are wonderful schools and teachers...it's those parents who have given up on parenting.  You have to admit there is a new dynamic in parenting.  We aren't living in a world of obedience and respectfulness seen in the children around us.  If you need evidence, just go to a McDonalds Playland.

While we are on the topic of parenting choices and bribery,  I want to share something I read about bribing children.   This leads to a sense of entitlement...it leads to good behavior with a question attached: What are you going to give me?  "The obvious danger is training the child to obey for selfish gain rather than to just submit to God and their parents.  Children of bribing parents tend to develop self-oriented tendencies and learn to manipulate others.  Because they seek to be rewarded, they limit their ability to serve others unless they receive gratification." (Gary Ezzo)  Is that what we want our children to be - manipulators?  I witnessed it the other day at swimming lessons.  The child was not doing what the instructor was asking her to do in the pool.  Her mom who was sitting next to me says "I guess it's to for a bribe". She got up and whispered something in her ear and the child did what was asked of her.  In short term it worked but how will it effect them long term?  Okay...enough of my side tangent :)

Let's talk about academics.  Most schools are missing this essential part to a child's learning in the foundational stage of their life.  When you think about your education, what is the one thing you know back and forth, inside out by memory?  Your ABCs, right?  You can sing that all day long.  So we do that with our letters but what about everything else?  Schools teach to get you to know stuff for a test....you study for a test, take it, and then you forget, right?  I mean, who really remembers what happened in the war of 1812?  In classical conversations, they teach the foundations/knowledge stage of information from 4-10 or so to where you master each subject before moving on to the understanding and wisdom phase of knowing each subject.  If you memorize all the laws of math, places and time in history, English rules, etc, when you come to the understanding and wisdom phase where you apply and put the information into use and practice, it will be a lot easier.  Take math for instance...kids fail to love math because they never learned the "grammar" stage of math.  Classical Conversations uses the classical method of teaching.  You start at the knowledge phase.  You learn all the grammar for each subject and soak up the information like roots on tree.  God designed us in this way as he knew it was the best way for us to learn.  The 2nd phase is understanding or dialectic.  In this stage, you put your knowledge to use like a tree uses its trunk and branches to transport its nutrients and uses them to grow.  And the 3rd stage is wisdom or Rhetoric.  In this phase you produce fruit...put your wisdom into practice.   Here is kind of the run down of what Reece will be learning in 1st grade at Classical Conversations/home.  She will be learning the "grammar" phases of 6 subjects:  History, Latin, Geography, English, Math, and Science.  This is all memory work that she is required to learn.  She learns by memorizing all the laws and operations of math, all the basics of the English language (verbs, nouns, linking verbs, prepositions, etc), the world history timeline from creation to 9/11, and more.  She will do her science projects there and have to do presentation in front of her peers EACH week.  This helps them to be able to speak comfortably in front of others for the rest of her life.  In Arts, she will learn the fundamentals of drawing...she do 6 weeks of oils.  She will learn how to play the tin whistle (notes and harmony). She will learn about great artists and about great composers/Orchestra.  This is all stuff that will be memorized and in her head forever.  At home she will have to do a 1/2 hour of the memory work which is on a cd.  We will also be doing her writing, spelling, language arts lessons/worksheets, a reading program, and of course math.  Currently she is reading at about a 2nd grade level and just started cursive.  She went to a 3 day CC camp and learned by memory all of the continents, oceans, European Mountain Ranges, and the rivers in Europe.  She is also able to draw the continents on her own on a map....at age 6.  Maybe she doesn't need to know all that at 6, but this goes to show you what they can learn...without a "real school" (GASP!)

 One thing that seems to always come up in discussion with those who oppose homeschooling, is the topic of tests.  I was asked "how will you ever know where she stands against her peers if she is never tested?"  I ask why do I need a number?  I can see how she is doing because I am doing the work with her each day.  She is not a product to be sold...she is a person.  I would put my little "product" up against anyone her age and I feel confident she would be up to par or fair better.  But tests do not necessarily show accurate results.  A good example of that is me.  I scored an 18 on my ACT which is horrible if you did not know.  I graduated college with a Business Management degree with a 4.0 gpa.  The results are not the same. 

I was told that homeschooling is a form of isolation.  If I was isolating my child we would stay home all the time and not associate with others, let alone others who do not homeschool.  We have many friends that we see on a weekly basis.  I'd say more friends that do not homeschool verses ones that do.  We go to the library, pool, garage sales, play dates with friends, play in the yard with neighbors...and even others who do not so called Believe (gasp!!!).  They are enrolled in swim lessons, dance, gymnastics, etc.  My kids are very social and the love to be with their friends.  We are doing Classical Conversations so that we can enjoy the social aspect more and she can get the classroom feel and have interaction with peers.  Mommy needs that too :)

I was asked what happened to me in school (bad) that I choose to homeschool.  Nothing happened bad to me in school that would make me choose homeschooling.  I had a pretty good school experience overall.  I loved all my teachers and did pretty well academically.  I had a lot of friends and actually enjoyed going to school.  I am pretty sure that I had the perfect attendance record.

The fact that others are "saddened" that I won't allow my child to experience school the way society says is normal is another thing I hear.  To me that comment indicates that you care more for or love my child more than I do.  I care and love my child more than anyone does...I would never want to harm her education or life in any way.  I only want the best for her and right now, I think homeschooling is best for her.  Its only "normal" to go to school because that is how society has made it.  In the past it was normal for people to do school at home.

Now, there is the question of how I feel about people who don't homeschool.  The bible does not tell us whether we should homeschool or not.  But I do feel it is my God given right as a parent to choose how I want to educate my child.  Is it for everyone?  No.  Would I send my child to a public school?  Yes, possibly one day.

I would ask for prayers over this matter....this could be a right that is taken away from us as a parent.   Just as a woman can choose life or death for her unborn child, we should be able to choose how we want to educate. 

Wednesday, January 9, 2013

Don't Panic Dinner is in the Freezer!


***This is the presentation that I did at our church on Freezer/Bulk cooking in November***

I think in our busy lives we know that it is important to eat and eat well, but we want to find ways to make it easier and quicker and cheaper, without a lot of stress…is that right? 
Let me start by asking you a question…Are you a type A person? I am!  A Type A individual is ambitious, rigidly organized, highly status conscious, can be sensitive (I can’t believe they would write that about me), care for other people, are truthful, impatient, always try to help others, take on more than they can handle, want other people to get to the point, proactive, and obsessed with time management. People with Type A personalities are often high-achieving "workaholics" who multi-task, push themselves with deadlines, and hate delays. So now…how many type A’s do we have??  

There is something you need to know about this process -  YOU will need to let go of some of your perfectionism…I’ll let you know when I get to those parts…I am a type A too…and learning to get over some things has really helped me out in the world of cooking.  I think a lot of us don’t want to cook because we are impatient, took on more than we can handle, we are sensitive – don’t want people to not like our cooking. We don’t want to mess it up…we don’t want to deal with the mess.  I promise I will get to the point -  I know you type A people are already reading ahead. 

If you are anything like a normal person, you may look like this  after a day of trying to cook.


The bad news is that you will still look like this after you cook even after you learn these tips, but the good news is – it will be less often.  Even if you are a type A person you will look like this after a day of cooking – if you truly let go - and I know that in your perfectionism you are not happy about this, but that’s the way it is so be more like a type B and get over it!.   No matter how much of a type A organized you are…your kitchen will look like this…


 And this...



 …when are done.  But do not fear…it won’t last long and then you will get some much needed down time if you can let go!

I am going to show you how if you take a little extra time up front, that you will have a lot free time in the end by cooking things in advance and freezing them.  We are going to look at:

  • how we can be more efficient in the kitchen
  • how to make our meal times less stressful
  • how to save money
  • how to eat better

But first we are going to look at what the bible says about food. 

The bible says a lot about food…down to which types of animals and plants we can eat.  Food is a common theme in the bible…one of the first verses of the bible revolve around the woman and food.  You can’t even count the number of times there are feasts, breaking bread together, and fellowshipping together with food.  If you think about it, when you have someone over, what do you with them usually?  You eat…whether that be a whole meal or just dessert or coffee, our time spent with others usually revolves around food.  

For most women, the thought of food or cooking, can be very overwhelming.    What do we make?  How do we make it?  And when am I going to have time to cook a meal?  This is one duty in the household that usually falls on the woman’s shoulders.  And it’s an important one…if we don’t eat, we can’t function.  If we eat poorly, it can effect our attitudes and our waist lines.  So for most of us a lot of thought is given into what we make and put into our mouths and into the mouths of others.  If you think about it…meal preparing is one of our biggest responsibilities usually.  We have to worry about what our family will eat – 3 times a day!
God says in his word “that man does not live by bread alone, but man lives by every word that comes from the mouth of the Lord” Duet 8:3.  

I don’t know about you but I can’t remember the words from the mouth of the Lord if I haven’t put the bread in first.  If we haven’t eaten, we aren’t at our best.  In fact, I say not very nice things when I haven’t eaten!  We need the food to survive…we need food to function.  When I thought about meal time, I knew that we all needed this in order to be our best.  That’s why people bring you meals when you have a new baby in the house – because they know we can’t be our best to that baby, if we haven’t eaten.  If we have food, at least in my family, we can do just about anything…and if we have God we CAN do anything.   

Proverbs 31:15  "She rises while it is yet night and provides food for her household and portions for her maidens."

I know this sounds horrible (waking up before it is light out)…it might not mean this for everyone but if we are feeling led in that direction and we obey, we will see blessing from that.  This might not be a command from God but it’s in his word for a purpose.  He knows that if we do get up early and prepare in this way, the rest of our day will go a lot smoother.

Here is some "food" for thought…my devotion on this subject, actually has little to do with food…but has a lot to do with what God has called us to do.  When I started cooking and doing bulk cooking, I would not have called that my “spiritual gift”.  But sometimes its not about what is our gift, but what is our command from God.  I have heard a lot of excuses about why we don’t cook and a lot of women just say “it’s not how I am wired”…or basically that “I am just not a good cook”.  I’d say like with anything, cooking is something that comes easier and better the more you do it – it takes practice.  For some people it’s a natural thing but for others they have to work at it.  But the bible does say we should serve…and just because we might not be good at something, doesn’t mean we get to get out of it.  When you look at cooking as something God called us to do for our families, you will look at it with a new perspective…maybe even an urgency to share and serve in ways you never knew before. 

When you bulk cook like I am going to show you…it’s going to be messy…it may cost more up front – time and money…but the outcome you get in the end is peace.  Peace that there are completed meals in your freezer.  You will treasure them like little bags of gold.  It’s easier to open your home and invite people over when you know you have things in the freezer.  Or better yet, you’ll be more likely to not complain about preparing meals when you haven’t had to do it in awhile. 

Kelly Minter, author of several bible studies, discusses her experiences in canning tomatos in her bible study of the book of Nehemiah.  If you have ever canned you know how time consuming and risky this process is.  Although she discovers that it cost her more to can the tomatos than to buy them at the store, she realizes that canning was more important to her.  She says “It took some analyzing to discover, but the real reason I started canning is because I’m deeply relational.  In the end, Canning was about dinner and dinner was about conversation and community and togetherness.”  That’s really what dinner is all about right?  She compares this to Nehemiah in the rebuilding of the temple.  She talks about all the people who join Nehemiah in the rebuilding of the temple – young, rich, city folk, farmers, old, rulers, servants, merchants, priests, and women.  She says “Because the trip he is about to take to Jerusalem was never really about stones or gates but about the community those fortification would protect.  Be it canning tomatos or building walls, its all about the people”.  So let’s do this…it’s all about the people – the people in our family, the people who need meals (new moms, an ill friend, etc), and the people we will want to invite into our homes and feed.

My story

I started bulking when my oldest child was born…so about 5 years ago.  I took about 5 months off of work when she was born but I knew when I went back to work, it would be hard to juggle and I asked myself the question “What is the one thing I could do now that will make it easier to go back to work in a few months?”  The only thing I could come up with was meals.  I couldn’t clean in advance because it would just get dirty again…I couldn’t work out in advance, because I would still need to work out then…I couldn’t catch up on sleep.  But I could make meals and freeze them.  I started with just basic recipes that we ate and liked on a regular basis…lasagna…soups…casseroles…but this evolved into breakfast, lunch and dinner – even though now I stay home!  Back then I cooked on the weekend when my husband could help me with the baby and I still do that today even though my kids are 5 and 4.  Currently I cook about 10 hours a month and try to do that all in one weekend…preparing all our meals – breakfasts, lunch and dinners at one time. Then the rest of the month, I can plan out what we will eat each week by looking at the freezer and the calendar and thawing things out on Sunday nights.  Ours probably lasts longer than a month because we mix our frozen meals in with things we put on the grill and easily prepared meals like meatloaf and spaghetti.

Benefits of bulk cooking:
Meaty benefits:
♥Saves time;.Cooking all at one time, having meals in your freezer for the week/month
        Who thinks dinner time is the most chaotic time of the day? (if you aren’t prepared).  I do most of my cooking on the weekend when my spouse is able to watch the kids or during nap time so that it doesn’t stress me out with the kids in the room or taking time away from them
♥Less stress; Relaxing/quality time with family on the nights you don’t have to cook
I have less stress on the nights that I don’t have to cook. 
♥Variation; A variety of meals in your freezer that you can choose – made by a friend (if you do a dinner co-op)
♥Clean kitchen; Enjoy a clean kitchen most of the time
♥Saves money; buying meat when it goes on sale, stocking up on side items with coupons. Going out to eat less often.
♥Not thinking about what to have for dinner; Go to your freezer and lay it out the night before.
♥Organizes your schedule ; putting meals on your calendar or saving for hectic days. Or save them for hectic days. Still have to kind of plan because you have to thaw most of them.  Be flexible…if you don‘t go by what’s on the calendar, no big deal…just something  to go by.
♥Eating healthier – not eating out as much, eating healthier foods

Okay, so what’s a dinner co-op? (this info was in a prior post but I used it in my presentation)
Also known as “cooking co-ops,” “supper clubs,” and “supper swaps,” a dinner co-op can take any number of shapes and forms, but the basic idea is that a group of people cook for each other -- allowing everyone to eat more home-cooked food but saving time (and often saving money) in the process.  For more info on dinner co-ops please see THIS post.  I did this with a group of girls for a year and a half and loved it!!


Now that we have talked about reasons…now we will look at sources.

There are many different sources for freezer cooking.  Really there is not much you can’t freeze.  Almost anything is freezer quality if you have the right method of freezing.  You don't need a freezer cookbook but if you are just starting out, you may want to try one of those first.

We will look at several different sources of freezer cooking – including the East White Oak cookbook.  Then I will walk you through a few meals using some quick cooking tips and tools.  

One of the first actual freezer cookbooks I used was Fix Freeze Feast.  This is a great starter book.  It tells you most what you need to know and separates things by categories…chicken, beef, pork, desserts, appetizers.  In the back has appendix with labels for all your meals!  Almost every meal in this book was good.  What I liked about this book is that its not full of casseroles – the meals that usually add on pounds.  A lot of it is home made marinades that you put on different cuts of meat.  This book helped me get out of my “meat” box and try different things.  I am going to show you how to do a recipe out of this book a little later.  This is a great book to start with if you are new to freezer cooking.  You can borrow mine or you can buy it…Amazon did have it for around 13.99 and you can see it here.

The next book I tried was Once a Month cooking.  This one is neat as it prepares a whole 2 weeks or months worth of meals for you and even gives you the grocery list. You can view it and buy it on Amazon here.

Next I tried “Don’t Panic! Dinners in your Freezer.”  This one I thought the meals were more “gourmet” – very delicious – but a little bit harder to make.  It does give you a symbol for easy vs hard, etc so that is helpful.  It shows you how to adjust if you want to make 3 or 9 or 12 meals of the same kind!  You can review it/buy it here.

Most recently I have tried a new website called “Once a Month Mom” (www.onceamonthmom.com). It has all your recipes for the month for breakfast, lunch, and dinner!  You put in the number in your family and it adjusts the ingredients and the shopping list.  You print the shopping list out and go to the store!  It also lays out all the steps to completing the meals...such as chop this, cut this, shred this, cook this, etc.  Each month there are several different menu options to go with (traditional, vegetarian, diet, etc) and they change each month based on what is in season and on sale during this time - another plus and way to save money!!


These are my meals for the month of November. (pictured above on table)

I used the October Traditional meal plan from the Once a Month Mom site and worked on these for a couple of days.  I got most of my ingredients at Aldi and spent around $150…that’s great for a months worth a meals.  Now I only have to go back for milk, fruit and things like that.  As you can see, there are a variety of things in here and several ways to freeze them.  I freeze most of my meals in a zip lock bag if I can...I freeze them flat on a cookie sheet and then put them upright in the deep freeze so I can flip through them like a file cabinet drawer.  
My deep freeze "file cabinet" system.  Bags are all upright because I froze them flat first.

A Walk Through the Process 
Now I will walk you through a few recipes.  

First, I am going to walk you through a quick meal to make out of the Fix Freeze Feast cook book.  It's the teriyaki chicken.  It's one of our family favorites and it is so easy to make!   First, it’s important to have a cleared off work space with all the ingredients you need.  I have an island in my kitchen so that is what I use.  If you don't have a lot of counter space, you can clear off a table.  

A lot of the recipes on the once a month site are just like this one – I call them dump recipes…but some entail a little more to make.  All you do is dump the ingredients in a bowl, whisk it, and pour it out evenly among the 3 bags of chicken.  This recipe is for 3 entrees of teriyaki chicken.  

Example of what the recipes look like in Fix Freeze Feast
 Example of labels which are found in the back of the book. (scan them into your computer so you can reuse them)



I’ll show you the steps on how to make lasagna out of the Fix, Freeze, Feast cookbook.  What I like about this recipe is that you don't have to boil the noodles first.  And you can cook it straight from the freezer. This is my somewhat cleared off counter with all the ingredients needed.











Tip - Do ground beef in crock pot..saves your arm and time.   Takes about an hour to do this.  Put it in the crock pot with water (about 1 cup per lb).  I think this was about 5lbs.  



Of course you can do them on a frying pan, but I would suggest getting the mix and chop from Pampered chef.  


Now if you are a type A person, you won’t be able to let these crumbs go.  I made grilled cheese on this pan before hand.  But will you really be able to taste that in the lasagna?  These are the kind of questions you need to ask yourself – does it really matter?  Seriously...a little crumb won't hurt you...leave the crumbs alone!!

Lay out all your pans and start with the first layer...like an assembly line


I used the same measuring cup from the cottage cheese as I did with the parm cheese...remember, it's all going in the same recipe!

 Here are the ingredients laid out...cottage cheese mixture and all the meat is in the strainer sitting inside a pan to catch drippings.  No sense dirtying another bowl!





This is one of the only recipes I can't freeze in a zip lock bag because its a layered entree.  So wrap with saran wrap first...

 Then cover with aluminum foil.  This recipe can be split out into 2 8X8s.  If you flash freeze it (freeze it so it's hard enough but not totally frozen), you can cut it into individual slices and wrap them up individually!  Be sure to label these with the pre-made labels in the back of the book.  Or simple write it on the package with the marker "Lasagna.  Bake 1 hour covered 350, uncover 15 minutes.  10/12"

Here is what I do with breakfast casserole.  This recipe is from the East White Oak cookbook, but you could use any recipe book.  What I did was make it the night before, bake it the next morning.  






After I let it coo,l I did what they call a flash freeze.  I froze it for around an hour – til it was stiff enough that I could wrap each individual squares in saran wrap and freeze.  



I put all the individuals in a big gallon zip lock bag, label and stick in the freezer.  Then it is easy to cook for one minute in the morning when we want a warm breakfast.  This is great even for single people or empty nesters…you can do this with soup and other things to even take in your lunch for work.  The possibilities are endless!  

Here are a few final tips:

Use a chopper to chop all your veggies.  I always do this all at once and always have some left in the freezer (bag of carrots, bag of onions, etc).  These flexible cutting boards are also nice.  Easy to store and clean and come in a 3 pack with 3 colors...this way you can cut all veggies on one color, all fruits on one color, and all meats on another color.  

Use a pitcher or bowl with a spout to pour all liquids.  Put zip lock bags in a tall bucket or tupperware bowl for less mess and more stability.  This is how I prepare soups...
There are plenty of storage options.  There are at least 3 size bags you can store things in - gallon, quart, and sandwhich (there are also snack size but haven't used them for freezing yet).  You pick a size depending on the serving size you need (lunch, dinner and number of people you are feeding).  You can also use things like these stackable rubbermaid containers.  Just be sure to label everything.  

Examples of some freezer things:

Mini muffins on the top, taco bites in the middle (these you flash freeze and then put in zip lock bags and freeze flat - we eat these for lunch a lot!  So much easier than tacos - use wonton wrappers).  Random mix of warm breakfast items - quiche, breakfast casserole, sausage bread, and mini breakfast casseroles in a muffin wrapper).  


 A few more examples...cranberry scones on top...home made crescent rolls on left, soup in the middle, chicken and rice on right.


If you ever have any questions as usual, you can sure ask me!!
I say if you want to go for it, pick one of the options to start with and work with one for awhile before you move on to something else.  Seriously...YOU CAN DO THIS!  If you need help, I would love to!

In Closing
As women, we hear a lot about being Hospitable.1 Peter 4:9 says  “Be hospitable without complaint.”  My new living translation says “Cheerfully share your home with those who need a meal…”  I think this applies not only to the people that come over to our homes, but the people that live in our homes.  Wouldn’t it be a lot easier to not grumble or complain…to be cheerful…about having people over, if a lot of what we needed was already done?  Next time you go into one of these bulk sessions, remind yourself why you are doing it. 

I haven't had to cook since the beginning of October so I am definitely ready to do another bulk session!!!